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August 29, 2011 at 6:38 am
So here’s what I’m wondering now: What do women expect from emotionally unavailable men? What can an emotionally unavailable man do to prevent a woman he’s interested in from falling for him? Should he just lose your number and disappear, is that what you’d prefer? Should he treat you like trash so there’s no confusion about his intentions (or lack of intentions)?

I feel like women expect this honesty that people (or read: emotionally unavailable men) say we can't handle. Sure it'll hurt. Sure we'll weep and moan about it, but the truth wasn't set out to be stomached easily. And it's all we have sometimes. As much as the truth hurts, you can't run from it. I think I know a handful of emotionally unavailable men and the "Outta sight, outta mind" thing works wonders. Stay out of the woman's mind, thoughts, area, etc. Speaking as someone with experience if you want to call it, the Houdini act is appreciated. Not that it'll make us feel any better but sometimes it helps with coping. To some degree. *shrug* Just another view. I just feel like I'd rather you vanish instead of stick around with my emotions and your …non-emotions.

Nice read.

p.s. I really played the song while I read this… lol

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VixenVic? says:
August 29, 2011 at 10:48 am