however, there was an instance when they went out to play golf and she had asked if he told me about it. He said no (he told me he was meeting her for drinks only) and she said she did not tell her husband either
So they are both lying to their significant others about their interaction with each other. There is nothing untoward about playing golf together, so why lie about it? If he lies about the so-called innocuous, what else does he lie about?
Even if he is just lying to make things more comfy for himself, and isn’t a cheater, do you really want to be with a man who lies about something so mundane? It’s GOLF, nothing to lie about.
I would dump him for being so dishonest. It isn’t going to get any better, he lies quite easily already.
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Crotch Rocket says:
August 11, 2011 at 10:22 am
“There is nothing untoward about playing golf together, so why lie about it? If he lies about the so-called innocuous, what else does he lie about?” This is the part that gets me. Why lie when there is no reason to? Not that I’m defending lying when there is a reason to, but somehow this seems even worse. That doesn’t speak well to his character–even ignoring whatever is or isn’t going on with this woman.