People don’t do things without reason. In other words, there is a reason (that you may, or may not, be conscious of) that is why you are finding yourself attracted to bad boys, acting on the attraction, and allowing yourself to get hurt over and over again by these same guys – that’s right – you heard me: allowing yourself to get hurt.
Why Women Love Bad Boys
1. Women love to take care of men.
(And men love to be taken care of – the good guys love to be taken care of by a woman they love and the bad boys love to be taken care of by any woman. In fact, the more women taking care of them, the merrier.) Sometimes that nurturing instinct goes haywire, and women start taking care of their husbands and their boyfriends the way they would take care of their own children.
Bad boys are not called bad men – they’re called bad boys for a reason. Bad boys don’t act like mature, responsible men. They act in their own best interests, like children do, and wind up getting in trouble because of it. That’s why bad boys, like all children, appear to need taking care of more than men do. Women that love to take care of men, and have that nurturing thing going on full force, will feel fulfilled by taking care of a bad boy.
I think my husband and I need to start communicating with each other better. We have a great marriage, but every time we have a problem it has something to do with the way we communicate with one another. I'm willing to work on my communication skills and he says he is too, so I'm sure we can fix these problems. Any advice for how we can communicate with each other better?