April 18, 2011 at 2:14 pm
Also these guys would take advantage of anyone who let them. Instead of completely blaming every victim who fell for it these guys are scumbags plain and simple.
Because I grew up with these lovely scumbags I learned not to take shit from anybody and to be overly protective of myself but my grandmother came from a very loving family and married a very loving husband and probably didn’t have much experience with lousy people trying to get one over on her and never had to develop these shields.
This isn’t limited to age. Some people are naive and trustworthy no matter how old they are or their life experience men and women included. I’ve had men I wasn’t interested in try to buy me things in an obvious attempt to try to get me more interested. I knew it wouldn’t work and refused the gifts. Another woman might have taken advantage and I’d call her a bitch for doing that just the same as calling these guys character lacking scumbags.