This of course ASSUMES you are escalating fast on the date. This doesn’t mean that you are persistent in getting them on the date, and then standing around and waiting for things to happen :D
So the comparison is only in terms of sexual aggressiveness on the street. It’s not “persistent” vs “non-persistent”.
Secondly – it’s not about results, but attraction
We’re saying that a woman doesn’t magically start desiring your penis more or less based on whether you did the first one or the second one. The PHYSICAL attraction is the same. Get it?
Your example is of why you DID or did NOT get the result. Your friend did not say that she found you unattractive, but then she became physically attracted once you made a move :D
She later admitted she’d been attracted to me all along,